Treading Down that Same Road

Current mood:amused

When I was a active subsciber of MySpace, This one of my first Blogs...I felt the need to speak openly through the medium...as I have always have in life:


As I read alot of the pages, I notice everyone has a list. A list for who they want to meet, a list for who they will allow to contact them, A list for how to be contacted, and on and on.

Now I am a respectful person and am more than willing to oblige you after I read your page and see who you are, so to speak. So as I was doing that I thought "why don't you post a list of your own to let people know what you are about on meeting new people too". So let's tread down that road....come join me won't you?

LIST OF PEOPLE I WILL DENY IMMEDIATELY! NO EXCEPTIONS!:

1. Professional Web Camers!: Don't bother with the invitation. I don't like the big tease in person, much less over a web cam. Its just not a close substitute for live and in person and never will be! BORING! My imagination can do far more than anything you can do on a webcam.(I have a personal rule, if she is going to put her sexual body parts that close to my face in order to arouse and excite me, she better be more than sure she is willing and able to use them for the purpose she intends or I'll walk!) Enough said!

2. People who use EXCESSIVE profanity: It might be great and exciting to lower your vocabulary to your friends, but some of us find it really obnoxious. You kiss your kids with that mouth? and would you put something in your mouth that you wouldn't hold in your hands?

3. Princesses need not apply: Yes, I'm talking to all the gold diggers, primp princesses, and wanna be queens. High maintenance is only achieved if you can prove you are really worth it. If all you are is a good body, a pretty smile, and a rabid narcissist; you are not that great! I support you for believing in yourself , you should and I applaud it, but not at others expense. Its great to be beautiful, but just because you breathe and recieve attention doesn't make you worthy of everything you want and see. You get what you give......

4. Angry People: Ok, I understand you've been dumped, cheated on, lied to, used, manipulated, swindled, and in some cases, even beaten. You did not deserve that. I was not there, I did none of those things and I will not be compared to others who have done this. I am no angel, not in the least, but I do show respect and courtesy and I expect the same of you. Would it be fair for me to compare you to the women who have hurt me deeply? Would you be offended if I did? Look, I understand that it hurt, I really do. Break the chain, stop the cycle, use what ever cliche' you like, but stop thinking you are the only one who has ever been down that road. Seek out those who have been where you just came from and talk to them, find common ground, Really LISTEN to them and start seeing people for who they are, not for whom you anxiously suspect they will become. It is your choice, I concur, but if you took the time to read my page, you will remember what I said about limiting yourself, you aren't limiting others as you think you are. You will know when you have met a horn dog or not, you've been alive and survived the dating scene for a while haven't you?

( Note: to those who are hurting right now, stop what you are doing and realize you need to heal. Do you really think you'll be able to control those emotions with a new person? or do you think you can make the new person live up to the things you didn't get in the last relationship? Most healthy people will see the damage and let you go before you ever get the chance to suck the life out of them. Think about it for a minute, just because we get hurt doesn't mean the rest of the world owes us anything, not even an apology. The only person who does is the one who hurt us and good luck in trying to get that sincerely. Give it time, don't mess someone else up because someone tore your emotions apart, time does heal, I promise!)

5. Dominatrix types: Look ladies, you serve a purpose in this world, just not my world. I will not serve you. I hate domination and dominating others. A little playfulness is great but if you come at me with a whip and chain, I will defend myself, no matter what the gender. Good luck with that though and enjoy yourself, Mistress! (once and only time I'll ever call you that)

6. People who ask me to send a pic of my genitals: Look ladies, I understand the law of equality. I have no doubt you get 100's of requests a day to send pics of you naked, pics of your breasts, pics of the "bearded clam", but rest assured I will not request them from you. I, of course, will look if you volunteer to show me. Understand, that if you do volunteer, you did so of your own free will. I am a red blooded male, for the love of all things great, but I will not ask you for them and please don't ask me to do the same. That request is a location specific event and I don't do that with just anyone.

7. Any one under the age of 25: Unless you are a friend of my children, or a growing or grown up child of one of my friends, what would we have to talk about? I'm 37, not 17. As you can see in my "Friends" list, my daughter is listed as 1, she is the only one I will allow to do this. I don't care about whats on MTV, what the latest and greatest new fad is, and reality T.V is getting really old! Plus, being accused of Pedophelia is not something I even want to approach or think about! I live in the REAL WORLD, I don't watch it on T.V. I do like some of the music, I do like to dance, but come on young people! I am a father, but not your father. Lets keep it that way ok. Sorry but thats how I feel.


Ok...that is about the gist of it. I'm sure as I look around further I will find more things to add but so far that is what I have dealt with. So if you fit this list, use a little rational thinking and don't tread down that road! Thanks!