Saturday, September 24, 2011

The "Hey Baby!" Syndrome

Current mood:amused

I was talking to a friend Saturday and we were talking the "Hey Baby" syndrome that most people seem to suffer from on the web and dating sites. I find it a bit strange that the most equivilant thing most men AND women can muster to say as a greeting is that phrase or something that sounds close to it. Do people really think the "nightclub/bar" pickup word is just as effective over the web. Do we all have to sound like "Butthead" from "Beavis & Butthead" (hated those guys! Uhhhh!)

As you notice on my page, I don't have alot of "friends' per say. It's my choice on how I handle myself and who I talk to. Each of the people on my page have something different about them that sets them apart for me. They have a charisma, a glamour, if you will, that make them so genuinely unique. Each one was so gracious to share who they were with me. They were not pretentious, only candid and that is so absolutely refreshing. I knew when I contacted them, or they contacted me, that there was someone there that I would really enjoy getting to know. Not one ever approached me with "Hey baby, your hot!" or "Damn, you are fine!" or some cheesy crap I see on so many of the comments on this medium or any other for that matter. I want to thank them all for being themselves. I've disapproved quite a few but please don't think badly of it....Don't just assume that just because you are ugly, average, cute, beautiful, or dropdead gorgeous I will start drooling, run in fear,or be rude, or instantly add you. You need have a bit more than that. To those who disapprove of me, I don't take it personally. You feel what you feel, nothing wrong with that.

Just the same, I might answer you and I might not, if you hollar "Hey Baby! I want to meet that!" Take your chance, but don't get your hopes up there, Killer! LOL

P.S... The best line so far I have recieved is " Damn! I wish you were an M&M! I'd make you melt in my mouth and in my hands"

Ladies! Have you been reading from the "Cheesy Pick Up Line" dictionary again? LOL...it didn't work on you, so what do you think it would do for me? LOL

1 comment:

WittyChick said...

Two of my favorite lines received as of yet:

"I'd tap that" from a random 21 yr old. Nice. I don't remember having a keg in any of my pictures.

"Wanna see my C***?" No, I do not. If I wanted to see that, I would prescribe to a porn channel on cable and see plenty.

Do these guys really think this is going to get them somewhere? I mean afterall, I am 38 and thought I posted some relatively classy photos. Do they think we are all whores? I have not been impressed with the pick up lines to say the least!